Thanks for the replies, gals. It's nice to know there is such support and understanding out there.
Unfortunately, I don't qualify for a shared risk program, because my FSH is too high (13, needs to be 10). Basically I'm too risky to share with.
My real problem is that we're not convinced IVF will work for us. That's where it dissolves into a money issue, because at this point we kind of feel like we'd be throwing the money away.
Plus I can't do this for much longer. Only once more. Ok, I'll do it more if we have frosties, but that's it. If I have another miscarriage, then I am definitely done.
But the beauty of all of this, is I feel really good about the adoption option. That brings me some real peace of mind. We haven't ruled out IVF yet, we're just on the fence. And it feels great to feel so good about adoption, because it really makes me hopeful.
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Hope is good, good, good. :)
I have said over and over to my husband "I don't know if I can do this much longer" and I too know it all sounds unbearable after another loss.
The wonderful thing about adoption is that you do know the ending to your story.
You have to do what you and hubby feel is best for you! I wish you luck and love no matter what you decide. You're in a community that will support your decision!
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